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August 19, 2024 Diane OConnell

Combating Disgruntled Worker Syndrome

Leading with Empathy

Empathetic Leaders
Remember when we talked about spotting the early signs of Disgruntled Worker Syndrome (DWS)? Well, now it’s time to face the music and have those crucial conversations. Are you ready to channel your inner Freddie Mercury and belt out “We Will Rock You,” or are you more inclined to pull a Dionne Warwick and “Walk on By”?
As the incomparable Bob Marley sang, “Get up, stand up, stand up for your right.” In this case, it’s about standing up for your employees’ right to a fulfilling work experience. So let’s fine-tune those communication skills and hit the right notes in these important talks.
Here’s your setlist for a harmonious crucial conversation:
1. Set the stage: Choose a private, comfortable setting. Think unplugged session, not stadium concert.
2. Start with empathy: Open with “I’ve noticed some changes lately, and I’m concerned. How are you feeling?”
3. Listen actively: Give them the mic and really tune in. Don’t just wait for your turn to sing.
4. Focus on specifics: Discuss observed behaviors, not assumptions. It’s “I noticed you missed the last three team meetings” not “You seem checked out.”
5. Collaborate on solutions: Work together to compose a plan. It’s a duet, not a solo performance.
Try this opener: “I value your contribution to our team, and I’ve noticed some changes lately. I’d like to understand your perspective and see how we can make things better together.”
Here’s a fascinating riff: Studies show that employees who feel heard are 4.6 times more likely to feel empowered to perform their best work. That’s like turning up the volume on your whole team’s performance!
Remember, these conversations aren’t about confrontation – they’re about collaboration. It’s about creating a workplace remix that everyone wants to dance to.
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Diane OConnell
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